Mrs. W. came to visit, arriving the day after we got back from New York. We'd just spent three days with her and Mr. W. in Boston, so it was a luxury to have her stay. And then she prolonged her visit, so she was with us nearly a month. The perfect guest, Mrs. W. is. And what makes the perfect guest?
First, the perfect guest gives massages to both hosts - and the perfect guest is a trained masseuse, so they aren't just any old massages, they are deep and long, and if you request feet only, you get feet only.
Second, the perfect guest can take care of herself. She makes herself at home, but she cleans up after herself and even cleans out the plastic bags under the sink.
The perfect guest leaves little friendly notes about her whereabouts, half for information and half just as a gesture of affection.
The perfect guest gives you a goodnight kiss on the cheek and a hug.
The perfect guest is impressed with your cooking and religiously writes down recipes on her laptop while you cook, in between helping you out by chopping vegetables if you let her, because to be honest, you aren't much of a team player and it isn't just anyone you let in your kitchen while you cook.
The perfect guest loves to knit on the sofa while you play the piano and then patiently listens to you explain how the Goldberg Variations work and why they're brilliant and finds them as amazing as you do.
The perfect guest cries at your favorite sentimental movies as you watch together, eating chocolates and little sour candies.
The perfect guest finds your friends fascinating and not only listens well, put comments thoughtfully and laughs at all the right places.
Sadly, eventually the perfect guest will have to go back to Boston, to her husband, who no doubt has missed her dreadfully.
The Swedish phrase for the day is vi ses igen snart. It means we'll see each other again soon.
- by Francis S.