Well, it will be soon. As of May 1, the husband and I will just need to fill out a little piece of paper and our partnership becomes a real marriage, just like the heterosexualists!
Separate but equal will be a thing of the past.
And don't let anyone fool you about it just being a matter of semantics, either. Words make all the difference in the world.
The Swedish words for the day are partnerskap and äktenskap, which I suspect have both been the word of the day at some point before. They mean, respectively, partnership and marriage.